I don't know specifically with regard to the max load as you put it. I think you're saying that the preload has to exceed the load the fastener experiences or it will fatigue. That seems to be what the article I linked to was saying. One of the more common fastener failures is due to fatigue because it was not given the proper preload. To quote:
The most common failure mode of bolts is fatigue failure. Bolts can fail by due to several reasons including (1) the bolt had not been sufficiently preloaded/tension during installation, (2) had lost its preload during service, (3) the applied cyclic loading had been excessive – far beyond the strength of the bolt and/or (4) the bolt had been understrength (quality issue/wrong grade).
My engineering classes were a LONG time ago but I went back to one of my old text books to look up about bolts. There was a section on fatigue loading, there was discussions about preload, and I was quickly lost (in my defense, it was over 40 years ago that I took that class!). It would be pointless for me to try to interpret what my text book said about our situations but I say this (and it applies to all materials) that a fastener that has been stretched past its elastic range (the fastener will have yielded) will not have the "spring" to clamp the pieces together as well. If the force continues after yield, the material will continue to stretch till it brakes.
There is a thing called a Torque To Yield bolt that is a new thing for me. From what I've been able to find out, they are supposed to be tightened past the yield point. And again, from what I've read, the use of these bolts is for use on modern engines with aluminum heads and are supposed to in some way deal with the fact that aluminum has a coefficient of thermal expansion twice that of steel or iron (or something else that would be important. what I've read was not specific). I know nothing beyond that. I don't believe that pertains to our motors (even those like the twin cam with an aluminum head and iron block). Those bolts are use once, then throw away and as far as I know, Torque to Yield bolts are not used on our motors.
As far as I know (and I don't claim to have up to date information) Torque to Yield bolts are a special case and the normal situation is that the bolt should not be stressed beyond it's yield point.